Pet Peeves

PET PEEVES

0)The term "pet peeves"- What does that even mean?

1) People who don't say "Hi" before trying add me to their friends list

2) Gay men who use the term "Straight Acting." Don't be so self loathing boys, even if your very stereotypically male or 'macho', why do you elevate str8 guys like they are something special??? (Sorry to all my straight friends- love ya, just don't want to emulate you)

3) When people don't put a picture of your face on your profile, somewhere.

4) People who watch television, but are ashamed of it, and try to act like they don't

5) When people use certain words when in some social groups, that they wouldn't in others (i.e.- the "N" word: You shouldn't get to use it, whitey, just cause there's no black people around!)

6) People who don't vote. (especially if then make any complaints about the state of government)

7) People who say "I hate Drama" or "Drama follows me"- Its my experience if you have enough drama in your life to make those statements then 1 of 3 things is true--

a)You create the drama in the first place.

b)You thrive on the conflict or stress it makes within you.

c)You can't handle real life, because its filled with 'drama'- struggles are a part of life

8) Tops that go out of their way to express a lack of understanding of someone else's desire to bottom. If you're a pure top, you should just be thankful that there are man out there that get off purely from sucking your dick, and getting fucked by you. It really is a wonderful balance.

9) People who claim they don't masturbate. Most of you are lying, the others don't know what your missing out on ;-)

10) Gay men who act like the club scene is a right of passage, that everyone needs to be 'done with' (you aren't better than anyone if you don't go to clubs any more) If you like to dance, drink, and be around other gay people then a bar/club is an option... you aren't better than anyone else if you "got over" that.

11) Guys who don't know how to kiss. If my tongue is your mouth and suddenly its gone, but my open mouth is still pressed against yours, that probably mean i want you to put your tongue in my mouth now... get with the program already!

12) Throw back to number five- Don't say "That's so gay" Unless you are talking about Carson Kesler or something... and even if you are don't say it- Because even if you are saying something is akin to men having sex with men, to say "that's so gay" almost certainly denotes that you think that thing is bad, or odd, or different in some way.... Its a phrase that's just filled with judgement...... and if I bust you for saying "that's so gay" don't try to rationalize it by saying "I don't mean it like that." Because if you say that you are really saying "I'm taking something you used to identify your self and saying that it also makes a good insult for something, or its good way to ostrasize someone" .....and really that's almost more insulting.

....still more to come I'm sure.